It was my birthday a couple of weeks ago and I received this beautiful book from my brother.
It really couldn’t of come at a better time. I’m finding myself in a position where I’m really stepping back and taking a look at my life, and it has opened my eyes to new ideals, starting with this quote.
Now the first time I read it, it actually made me feel a little uneasy so I quickly skipped to the next page. Then like a picture of something you know you don’t want to see, but just HAVE to look at, I read it again. And again. Each time taking it in a little more. Now to people who don’t know me, and possibly those who do, I probably seem quite odd. But typically I’m not someone who can sit still. I really struggle to relax.
On Sunday I decided it was time to give it a shot. Or at least start step one of being able to do absolutely nothing. There was a Sex and the City Marathon on TV, so I set myself up for an afternoon with no plans. 1 episode in, I found myself setting up the ironing board. I then proceeded to finishing ironing the whole basket and paint my nails. Although I was doing things, I felt quite relaxed. So relaxed that we had takeaway for dinner. (eeek!)
So my first attempt was definately an average one, but I’ll try again soon.
Why is it that we feel so quilty stopping to rest? And order takeaway? I work part time, run a business, take care of a puppy, cook and clean, and have a fiance who works fulltime in a stressful job and studys part time. Why is that not enough? Why do I feel guilty taking some time for me??
With our wedding around the corner and the possibility of children not too far away, I feel like I need to master this act of doing nothing before it’s too late!
I’d love some tips or pointers on how you find your ‘me time’.
Tags: book, inspiration, relax











{Mike & I at our Engagement Party}







